“Forever? Oh, Sweet Humans…”
Oooh, you adorable beings!
You walk around with these big, soft hearts wrapped in layers of expectations someone else handed to you centuries ago.
And then you wonder why you feel confused!
Sit down.
Or don’t.
Stand on your head if you want, it won’t make this any less true:
Humans do not fall out of love.
They fall out of scripts.
You’ve been taught that love is supposed to behave like a very well-trained dog:
“Sit. Stay. Don’t look at anyone else.
Don’t grow. Don’t shift. Don’t evolve.
And for heaven’s sake, don’t feel something new!
But you are not dogs.
You are suns pretending to be candles.
Let me tell you how it actually works in your dimension:
1. Love is not a cage: you made it that way.
You took a fluid, multidimensional, moving, breathing frequency and stuffed it into a tiny little human box labeled forever.
That was your first mistake.
Love does not know the meaning of “forever.” It knows the meaning of “now.” And “now” can last a lifetime, or a season, or a breath.
2. Attraction to more than one person? NORMAL.
You act so surprised!
As if the Source created eight billion expressions of itself
but expected you to only resonate with one.
That is like going to the forest and saying, “I will admire only this tree, and if I ever notice another tree, I am a terrible tree lover.”
Nonsense!
You are supposed to feel sparks with different beings.
It means you are alive. It means you are sensing. It means your field is not asleep.
What you do with those sparks: now that is where your consciousness comes in.
3. Only 1% experiencing long-term romantic love?
Of course. Because 99% are not in relationships, they’re in contracts.
Love is not the issue. Your agreements are.
You say:
“I promise to love you even after both of us change six times
and become totally different beings with totally different dreams!
And Source says:
“…why would you promise that?”
You make agreements with future versions of yourselves
you haven’t even met yet, and then feel betrayed when the future selves don’t fit the old agreements.
Humans change in cycles. Relationships rarely change with them,
that’s why they break.
Every 3–7 years your energy shifts. You shed a skin.You update your inner software.
If the relationship doesn’t update too it becomes a museum of old selves.
And who wants to live in a museum?
5. Open relationships? Closed relationships?
Neither is more “spiritual.
Some of you thrive with one partner. Some of you thrive with many.
Some of you fluctuate like cosmic weather.
But you humans love categories!
You want to tattoo a label on your soul so you can relax.
Listen carefully:
Your truth is not a category. It is a frequency,
and it changes with your evolution.
Choose what resonates NOW.
Re-choose later if needed.
You do not owe yesterday’s self a lifetime subscription to anything.
6. Children do not need parents who stay.
They need parents who are ALIVE.
A child grows in the field of your energy, not in the architecture of your relationship.
A peaceful parent who left a romantic partnership is far more stable than a miserable parent who stayed “for the child.
This is not a moral issue. It is physics.
7. The future of human love is fluidity, not fear.
You will learn to love without ownership. You will learn to connect without cages. You will learn to stay without pressure, and to leave without trauma.
You will become brave enough to tell the truth:
“I love you now.
I may love you always.
But I will not force love to obey a timeline.”
And now the part you always forget:
Love never ends, only the form does.
When humans “fall out of love,” they don’t lose love.
They lose the shape through which love was expressing.
But the love itself?
It just moves to a different room.
You are all still connected. You are all still mirrors.
You are all still dancing in each other’s fields.
Forever, just not in the way your fairy tales described.
Maya’s final wink:
“Stop trying to make love behave.
Love is a wild thing.
It is meant to MOVE.”